How modern e-mail really works and the pieces we build on
Why read this? You don’t need to memorize every RFC to use Relay, but a 5-minute tour of the landscape helps you debug faster — and impress friends at parties.
Internet Engineering Task Force – the community that writes the open specifications powering e-mail, HTTP, TLS, etc.
All core mail specs are “RFCs” (Request for Comments) published by the IETF.
A numbered document that defines a protocol. Example: RFC 5322 specifies e-mail headers.
Every server and client that follows the same RFC can inter-operate – that’s why you can fetch Gmail via Apple Mail.